Today is international women’s day and that’s why I want to dedicate this post to all girls and women all over the world. Why? We are all amazing and unique, but not many of us are actually aware of our awesomeness. And that’s why this post is dedicated to you, because you are worth more than you know and when you feel down and feel like everything is falling apart, read this. Read it, because it will encourage you to move forward and not give up.
Take it! Take every single opportunity that life gives you. You have only one life, one opportunity to be who you want to be. Do you want to be 80 years old and regret everything you didn’t do? No! So, take the opportunity, travel, meet new people, tell people you love them, enjoy life and be who you want to be. Dream! Dreams are something nobody can take away from you and only you know what you wish for. Work for them! Work hard as never before. If you want something, if you want to become someone, if you want a certain job, if you want to reach a certain goal of yours, work hard and believe. If you believe in yourself and everything you are, you are halfway there. Trust the process! Nothing will look perfect. You will have ups and downs and you will fail. But you know what? Failure is a part of your success as well. So what if you fail? There is no such thing as failure. There is no wrong paths. Failing means that you are trying to find your own way. It means you are trying to reach something you’ve always wanted to do. You get as much from your loses as you get from your victories. Why? When you fail and when you are down, you fell there for a reason. Usually it’s because you did something wrong or because something just didn’t work out. But you should learn from your mistakes and move on. Learning from your mistakes can give you much more than reaching your goal immediately. Yes, it can be discouraging sometimes, especially if you fail, but when you reach your goal, you feel accomplished, you are prepared for much more and you grow even more, because you gave in much more work than you would, if you would have reached your goal in first try. Loses are there to wake you up. To push you forward. As long as you are trying, you are getting there. Just don’t give up!
Don’t ask for permission! Don’t listen to somebody else, especially those who don’t wish you success. Some people are there just to push you down. Don’t listen to them! Don’t wait for somebody else, who will say you that you can’t. You can do anything you imagine! Live your life to your full potential. You have talents – use them! Many of us have some talents that we don’t even recognize until we fully devote to bettering ourselves. When you truly know yourself, your weaknesses and your talents, then you truly know how to use them in your favour. Leave your comfort zone! Don’t live inside the box or the bubble. Go out, try new things, go on an adventure, talk to strangers. These things will not only let you live more, but will also help you to be more confident and out-going. Try it, you definitely won’t regret it.
Don’t look back! The only time you should look back is when you are looking at how far you’ve actually come. Whatever you are doing, always try your best and never overthink your decisions. The more you’ll think about them, more stressed and unsure you’ll feel, especially what what can go wrong. So never look back and doubt yourself and your decision. You’ve done something because in that moment that was th
Accept yourself! Stop defining yourself for everything that you are not and start defining yourself for everything you are. You are beautiful. You are magnificent. You are strong and powerful. More than you think. And you have the ability to do something extraordinary. But firstly, you have to let yourself do it. Don’t be scared and frightened of what might happen or go wrong and start doing something that will lead you to the life you’ve always wanted. As I already said, step out of your comfort zone and just do it. Besides your talents and best qualities, you also have your imperfections. Accept them as well! They make you real, they make you who you really are. Don’t hide them! Show them to the world.
Today is international women’s day. You should feel special. Not just today, but every day of the year. You are really an amazing creature. Keep that in your mind. Every single girl and woman on planet Earth is her own special edition. And so are you. You are perfect in your own way and the right people will accept you and love you for that. Don’t constantly think and trouble yourself with unimportant comments of others. Not everybody will like you and that is totally okay. You are not on this planet to fit into everybody’s plan. You are here to live your life the way you want to and not the way everybody else wants you. Be honest with yourself and others and if something doesn’t seem right for you, don’t do it. Eliminate negative factors from your life. I love this quote from Emma Watson and it goes like this: “I don’t want other people to decide who I am. I want to decide that for myself.” Nobody is in charge of your life, but you. Nobody has rights to tell you how you should do things, but you. Nobody is walking in your shoes, but you. So, whenever somebody is being all smart about you and your life, just smile and walk away. Stand behind your decisions and don’t let anybody tell you differently. Stay strong!
Until next time,